More incidence of disrespect for women (or evidence of hairy women) came when I saw a train car designated for women with a man (or hairy lady) looking out with a thick mustache along with his bearded friend. I would say that is a gender designation fail. I wanted to take a picture for Fail Blog but of course my camera died. Once we got tickets, we hopped on the train. Passenger trains have no assigned seats. You basically sit wherever and they fit as many people as possible on the train. We were lucky enough to get seats. Each time the train stopped more and more people got on. Before we knew it the train was packed like the 45 going downtown after the China Town stops.
Getting on the train was dramatic as well. Our door was stuck half the time as people frantically tried to get on before it left the different stations. As the door remained stuck and the car filled up more and more, I tried to not think about how screwed I would be if a fire broke out on the train. At one stop, they finally opened the door as the train was starting to pull away. Mobs of people were running alongside and jumping on. An older woman tried to jump on and missed, falling. Everyone screamed and gasped. She got up and finally made it on, what a trooper.
A woman got on the train had a 12-13 year old daughter. She started asking my friends and me to move so her daughter could sit. I was tired and am not in good enough shape to stand so a thirteen year old who can't sit still can sit in my place. I ignored her, in part because she was not speaking English. Soon the woman started tapping our legs telling us to move. I continued to ignored her. After about 20 minutes of bothering us, she put her water bottle on our knees leaning on it. My temper from my water polo days started to bubble and if I could have, I would have beat the woman for being so disrespectful.
She then made one final attempt for us to move by pushing my leg forcefully to the side and yelling at me in some foreign language. I said in a polite and stern way, just as a mother would say to someone else's kid, "Don't touch me." The woman freak out. She started yelling out to the packed train that I had told her to not touch me. Everyone started laughing. I didn't care. I still believe you should be able to control who touches you. My friend Ritu tried to defend my honor by yelling at the woman but it was no use. The woman tormented us the entire ride. Ritu finally covered her head with her scarf and tried to sleep.The woman must have thought pretty much ANY kind of touching is ok because she finally got her daughter a seat- on the lap of a group of 18-20 year old guys sitting across from me. The guys were tickling the little girl. I was shocked.
Finally the terribly awkward train ride was over and we are at our destination: Borra Caves. The Borra Caves are apparently a set of caves where the drippings of a cave formed some Hindu deity (very Virgin Mary appearing in some odd place).
There were TONS of people to see this miraculous cave. We chose to first go see the waterfall in the area. I took in a deep breath of the fresh air as we saddled up to hike up to the waterfall. I chose to keep my backpack on as we hiked up. I felt like a mountainy northern California person. I definitely earned some legitimacy of owning the signature nor cal Northface fleece. There was a huge set of stairs we had to climb to get to the waterfalls. I expected that once we got to the top we would see the falls. Once we got there, there was a small stream falling off a far off cliff (seen left). What a rip off! Half the group was so discouraged they stayed behind instead of searching for the real falls. Hiking up the hill to the falls was so fun. I actually saw blue sky and could smell plants! Just as I began to travel into a space of nature bliss looking at small
pools (seen right) and walking uphill, I was reminded I was in India. "You just stepped in shit" said the girl I was walking up with. I looked down and saw I had stepped in something that smelled terrible and was the same color as a banana slug. Considering I was in India, which is lacking public restrooms, this could have been from man or beast. KILL. ME. NOW. I abandoned mission to get to the main falls as I tried to clean off my shoe in a pool. I poured a ton of disinfectant on my shoe and kicked as much off as I could on various rocks. I finally stood up all cleaned off and turned around to see a crowd of young guys watching me go through my horrible ordeal. "Picture Maam?" After the rude treatment on the train and stepping in fecal matter, I was in no mood for a picture. Like a celebrity, I covered my face and dramatically declined as I marched away. What had I become?
I returned to normal (and back down to earth) once we finally got lunch. Lunch was at a restaurant that was more like a front porch made of newspaper. We had plates of
dried leaves carefully stitched together. There was no menu at the place, they just serve Thali, which is basically a mini Indian food buffet. This is just like the place I went with my team where they ate with their hands. They came around with a bucket of rice and dished it to each person. When the dal came around, I knew that this time I would eat with my hands. I mixed the rice and dal with my hands, ignoring everything my mother has taught me. I loved it. It was nice to feel the warmth of my food. I found it much easier to combine different sauces to eat more tastily concocted bites. I scooped up a potato from one sauce, a loose garlic clove from another, and the right amount of sauce with rice to create a heavenly bite of food. I definitely think this is the best way to eat Indian food. It is not just the experience of eating with your hands that makes it superior. It is your fingers abilities to mix food and combine the perfect amount of different elements that makes it the ideal way to eat complex foods. I am definitely getting everyone to eat Thali when we get home.
After Thali, we tried to get to the caves but the line was WAY too long. We finally decided to go home. We got on a bus that would take us to our final destination. The bus was basically like an old yellow school bus but it was as old as a bus from when I was in first grade (which is almost long enough ago that it is time to lie about my age). We sat in the back by the window that said "break glass in case of emergency". I guess jumping out the back window is the best option. The bus ride was pretty long but it was through the hills and I was able to see pine trees! When we arrived at our final destination, 5 of us piled into a small rickshaw with all of our bags (including my huge backpack) and took off to our hotel.
The interesting thing about our hotels for both nights is that they are state owned hotels. This makes them cheaper to stay and more legitimate that some shady cheap hotel. They had pretty good facilities considering how cheap they were.
The highlight of the evening for me after settling in the hotel was walking to the local markets. While walking, I looked up to see TONS of bats flying through the air. They were silent and looked just like the batman sign. It was so exciting to see the never-ending supply of bats. We then got some street food. I had a samosa. It was yummy but WAY too spicy to finish. I also got some onion pakoras, which were like Indian onion rings. We then played on the playground at our hotel until it was time to go to bed.
Right when we got in our room to go to bed the power went off. We sat around in the dark and waited about 15 minutes. Usually the power goes on by then. We went to the
front desk to wait for the lights to go on just in case a killer had shut the power off and was going room to room. The stars were SO bright outside as we walked to the hotel arm and arm in fear. When we finally got the lobby, a man came down who was waiting for room service when the power went off and starting screaming at the reception people for not getting him his food fast enough. It was pretty funny. Finally, the power went back on the chaos died down and I got to go to sleep. What a LOOOOONG day.
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